When you are stuck on a tough decision, logic often fails. Pros and cons lists get messy. Fear of failure creeps in.
Instead, try the Regret Minimization Framework.
Project yourself forward—maybe 5 years, maybe to age 80. Look back at this moment.
Ask yourself: “Will I regret not doing this?”
We rarely regret the things we tried and failed at. We almost always regret the things we never tried at all.
If the answer is “Yes, I would regret missing this chance,” then the decision is already made.
Fear is temporary; regret is forever.